It is only stupid if we avoid happiness in the hope that we will avoid sadness in our life, the truth is that happy and sad are 2 sides of a coin – and both are inevitable.
It is stupid if you think you will avoid death, if you are capable in avoiding to live fully.
Without fear live for each day, to the maximum.
I have met many who are afraid of happiness coming their way, just I case its short lived? or brings sadness post it ! Even as a child – we were taught DO NOT laugh too much you will cry ! We have been trained to keep ourselves away from happiness in the fear of being lonely, upset and sad ! this is our pre-concived notion and mental conditioning of generating fear in the false notion of controlling our lives and events that occur.
many time you do not let love walk into your lives, because you feel that it might not stay or be long lived!
are you not depriving yourself from the universal bliss and the true happiness of your being?
If love and happiness is coming your way – let it.
happy and sad ,love and separation, win and lose are sides of a same coin – experience both !

Sending love and light to all,